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Second chance by Sedma Second chance by Sedma
I've recently lost a friend. Actually not a friend, he's still alive, but his friendship. We weren't so close but I considered him as a good friend. He was nice and very kind and he meant a lot to me.
I don't know when it started. Now when I turn back, there were a lot of signs but I haven't payed attention. Few weeks ago I've noticed some strange, unusual things but I tried to find some reasonable explanations. We are friends, there must be some good reason for what he did or didn't do. But few days ago I finally found the last sign, I found out that what I was afraid of, is true. I apologized to him even I still don't know what have I done wrong that could ruined our friendship. I simply didn't get a second chance. I think everybody should get, at least, a second chance. We are not perfect, we are humans and errare humanum est.
I'm so sad :(

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yoyododo1990 Featured By Owner Jul 3, 2013
To err is human, but Forgiveness is divine. Im quite sure people have reasons for acting how they do, even the worst of enemies have SOME reason for feeling that about someone, so we must always forgive. We may not always forget, but we should always forgive. And everyone deserves a second chance, especially if they are honestly trying to do the best they can to correct such mistakes. This stamp deserves a fave!^^
WhiteWings Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Before I say anything more, I want to say that this may not be your case at all: I don't know you, and you were a bit vague about your situation. So, I can't judge - it's not my place. However, the following is what I think to be true.

I...think I agree with the message, but only to an extent; the right to a second chance is sometimes lost to some people. I'm not saying they don't deserve forgiveness, but they could lose the right to friendship. Of course, whatever had to have happened would be something horribly destructive to the friendship. Even if it weren't too horribly destructive, I don't think a second chance should be given right away, where one has to pretend nothing happened while hurt feelings are hidden under the surface, eating a person inside out.

I think trust is something that has to be earned, and depending on the severity, might be something that is unattainable. In those situations (when further relations with someone is impossible), one has to accept and move on. It won't be easy, of course, but all things can and do heal.
Riddle79 Featured By Owner Jul 9, 2012
I am sorry, but your friend is a jerk.leaving you just like that, without any explaination...I have experienced a simular stuff and I can guess how you are feeling.No matter how tough was for him, whatever was the case, he should have said something to you.
Kitzophrenic Featured By Owner Dec 17, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
this is what i try to tell my best friend when i screw up :dead:
Eve-Francesca Featured By Owner Dec 13, 2011  Hobbyist Writer
I don't know if I already commented on this or not, but if I didn't, I'd like to say that I love this stamp and I can relate to it quite a bit. Thank you for making it! It contains a GREAT message. =D
Xeerinare Featured By Owner Nov 25, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Aww.... I kind of know how you feel.... :hug: I hope things get better....
peacelovehalstewart Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2011  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
of course :D
Stripesandangelwings Featured By Owner Aug 20, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Sorry. I really know what this is like. I hope all goes well...
JessamineDiane Featured By Owner Aug 17, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Not in the case of Poison Ivy no. :hmm:
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